In relationships, clear and compassionate communication is a must. Because we are experiential beings, sometimes we get stuck in our own heads and experiences and struggle to really connect with each other. This often leads to misunderstandings and conflicts that could’ve been avoided. So, how do we break out of this cycle and really see … Read more
The moment your baby arrives, everything shifts—especially your relationship with your partner. While you’ve probably heard that “nothing prepares you for the change,” there’s truth in the idea that the relationship dynamics are about to change in new and surprising ways. You’re both stepping into uncharted territory as parents and while it can be overwhelming, … Read more
As therapists specializing in relationship issues and betrayal trauma, we often encounter clients grappling with a form of infidelity that doesn’t involve physical cheating but can be just as devastating: emotional infidelity. This type of betrayal, while sometimes less tangible, can leave deep scars and shatter trust in ways that are just as profound as … Read more
The holiday season can be a challenging time for many, but for those grappling with betrayal trauma, it can feel particularly overwhelming. If you’re facing the aftermath of infidelity, sex addiction, or porn addiction in your relationship, know that you’re not alone. As a trainee of Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialist (APSATS), … Read more
The holiday season isn’t just about decking the halls and wrapping gifts—it kicks off well before Christmas, starting with Halloween’s spooky fun and rolling into Thanksgiving’s feast. And let’s not forget, in a city like St. Louis, there are plenty of local events and traditions to consider, from Boo at the Zoo to the Polar … Read more
It’s that time of year again—when sports fans are living their best lives. The NFL is in full swing, baseball playoffs are heating up, and if you’re like me, you’re trying to catch every WNBA game because, let’s be real, they’re absolutely crushing it. Oh, and let’s not forget the latest buzz—Taylor Swift showing up … Read more
Infidelity can shatter the foundation of trust and intimacy in a relationship, leaving both partners grappling with a whirlwind of emotions and psychological challenges. As a St. Louis couples therapist serving the communities of West County, including Ballwin, Chesterfield, and Frontenac, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound impact infidelity can have on mental health. This betrayal … Read more
by Danica Wolf, MSW Pregnancy is often described as one of the most joyous and miraculous experiences a couple can share. But let’s be real: pregnancy can also be one of the most stressful times in a relationship. From the moment you see those two pink lines on a pregnancy test, your life as a … Read more
Infidelity is a profound breach of trust that can shake the very foundations of a relationship. When trust is broken, it can feel like an insurmountable task to rebuild it. However, with commitment, patience, and the right strategies, couples can work towards restoring their bond. Rebuilding trust is a journey that requires time and effort … Read more
Marriage is a beautiful journey, but sometimes couples can lose touch with each other’s needs and wants. Life gets busy, responsibilities pile up, and before you know it, the connection that once felt so strong can start to feel distant. As a couples’ therapist in St. Louis, I’ve seen this happen many times, and I’m … Read more