Navigating the Holidays in the Face of Betrayal Trauma

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The holiday season can be a challenging time for many, but for those grappling with betrayal trauma, it can feel particularly overwhelming. If you’re facing the aftermath of infidelity, sex addiction, or porn addiction in your relationship, know that you’re not alone. As a trainee of Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialist (APSATS), … Read more

Surviving the Holidays as a Couple: A Guide to Balancing Love, Family, and Festivities

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The holiday season isn’t just about decking the halls and wrapping gifts—it kicks off well before Christmas, starting with Halloween’s spooky fun and rolling into Thanksgiving’s feast. And let’s not forget, in a city like St. Louis, there are plenty of local events and traditions to consider, from Boo at the Zoo to the Polar … Read more

Fandom and Family: Self-Care and Staying Present

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It’s that time of year again—when sports fans are living their best lives. The NFL is in full swing, baseball playoffs are heating up, and if you’re like me, you’re trying to catch every WNBA game because, let’s be real, they’re absolutely crushing it. Oh, and let’s not forget the latest buzz—Taylor Swift showing up … Read more

Infidelity and Mental Health: Navigating Emotional Turbulence

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Infidelity can shatter the foundation of trust and intimacy in a relationship, leaving both partners grappling with a whirlwind of emotions and psychological challenges. As a St. Louis couples therapist serving the communities of West County, including Ballwin, Chesterfield, and Frontenac, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound impact infidelity can have on mental health. This betrayal … Read more

Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

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Infidelity is a profound breach of trust that can shake the very foundations of a relationship. When trust is broken, it can feel like an insurmountable task to rebuild it. However, with commitment, patience, and the right strategies, couples can work towards restoring their bond. Rebuilding trust is a journey that requires time and effort … Read more

Dealing with Repeated Infidelity: Understanding the Cycle and Finding Resolution

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Infidelity is a devastating breach of trust in any relationship, and dealing with it once is hard enough.  But when infidelity occurs repeatedly, it can feel like an unending cycle of betrayal and pain. As a couples therapist in St. Louis, MO, I believe that understanding the cycle of repeated infidelity and finding ways to … Read more

How to Cope With Major Individual Stress as a Couple

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by Danica Wolf, MSW You know the feeling: Life is life-ing HARD. Trials and tribulations are flowing. Maybe it’s work stuff, health stuff, finances, all of the above. School, family, relatives, friends, etc. All of this is overwhelming for individuals, and can take an extra toll on couples who are dealing with their own “stuff” … Read more