Summer can be a joyful time. The pool is open, the days are long, and the sunshine makes it easier to spend time outside and soak up the season. But summer can also bring a quiet kind of discomfort. It can shine a light on what feels missing. I often hear a version of this … Read more
If you’ve been following along in this series, you already understand how Gottman’s Four Horsemen—criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling—show up in adult relationships and how damaging they can be over time. But there’s an important piece many couples overlook: these patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere. In most cases, the way you handle conflict today … Read more
Conflict is a natural part of any close relationship. However, how couples navigate these conflicts often determines the health and longevity of their bond. Dr. John Gottman, a leading researcher and therapist in the field of relationships, identified four particularly destructive communication patterns that predict relationship breakdown with startling accuracy. He named these the “Four … Read more
Therapy at Marble Wellness is designed to be more than a quick fix. For many people, meaningful, lasting change usually happens over about 10 to 12+ sessions because real healing takes time, safety, and practice, not just a single “aha” moment. Why “a few sessions” usually isn’t enough If you’re thinking about starting therapy, you … Read more
You might not be shouting it from the rooftops. But maybe you’ve whispered it in the quiet of your mind. “I don’t want to lose my marriage.” Maybe you’ve felt the drift for a while. The conversations that feel more like transactions. The silence after an argument that stretches for hours—or days. The heaviness of … Read more
There’s a quiet misconception floating around: That premarital counseling is only for couples who are officially engaged. You know—the ones with the ring, the date, the Pinterest board. #engagementera But here’s the truth: You don’t need to be wedding planning to benefit from premarital counseling.In fact, you don’t need to be planning a wedding at … Read more
Multicultural couples–partners from different cultural, ethnic, or religious backgrounds—are becoming increasingly common in today’s interconnected world. Multicultural relationships offer a rich tapestry of traditions, values, and perspectives. However, they can also present unique challenges, especially when it comes to navigating religious and cultural beliefs. If you’re part of a multicultural couple living in Ballwin, MO, … Read more
Parenting young children is a beautiful, rewarding journey filled with joy, discovery, and love. But it’s also one of the most challenging phases for any couple’s relationship. If you’ve found yourself thinking, “We have young kids and I’m sure a lot of this has to do with that,” you’re not alone. Many parents in Ballwin, … Read more
Loneliness is absolutely something to be concerned about right now. Both for people who are single, and also for people in relationships. One experience I’ve heard shared similarly by different people is this feeling of being surrounded by friends, family, & loved ones but still feeling isolated or alone. Specifically when there might be a … Read more
If you’ve been running your finances on your own for years, teaming up with your partner and combining finances can feel like a pretty big deal. It’s not just about the money. It’s about trust, giving up a little independence, and figuring out how to work as a team in a whole new way. This … Read more