When Your Parent Gets Scammed: Healing from the Emotional Fallout of a Romance Scam

When Your Parent Gets Scammed Healing from the Emotional Fallout of a Romance Scam

Discovering that your parent has been taken advantage of—especially in a romance scam—can feel like a punch to the gut. You might feel angry, helpless, embarrassed, or even betrayed. And if your parent doesn’t see the scam for what it is, the frustration can compound into a painful emotional storm. Unfortunately, scams targeting older adults … Read more

Letting Go of the “Perfect Summer”: Resetting Expectations That Actually Work

Letting Go of the ‘Perfect Summer’ Resetting Expectations That Actually Work with a St. Louis area therapist

If summer has ever felt overwhelming before it even began, there’s a good chance expectations are part of the reason. Not just your schedule. Not just logistics. Expectations. At Marble Wellness, we often see moms carrying an invisible list into summer. It’s not written down, but it’s there. It sounds like: On the surface, these … Read more

The Last Summer at Home: Finding Balance Between Letting Go and Holding On

The Last Summer at Home: Finding Balance Between Letting Go and Holding On to your High School Years in St. Charles County and Lincoln County Missouri

Summer break has finally arrived. For families with a new high school graduate, this season often feels different than any before it. There’s celebration, nostalgia, and anticipation in equal measure. The months ahead hold college orientations, part-time jobs, dorm shopping, and more “lasts” than anyone expected. It’s a season defined by transition, and for parents, … Read more

A Deep Dive into Gottman’s Four Horsemen: Transforming Conflict into Connection

A Deep Dive into Gottman’s Four Horsemen Transforming Conflict into Connection for St. Louis, MO Couples

Conflict is a natural part of any close relationship. However, how couples navigate these conflicts often determines the health and longevity of their bond. Dr. John Gottman, a leading researcher and therapist in the field of relationships, identified four particularly destructive communication patterns that predict relationship breakdown with startling accuracy. He named these the “Four … Read more

Understanding and Overcoming Gottman’s Four Horsemen for Stronger Relationships

The Four Horsemen What St. Louis Couples in Conflict Need to Know

Every relationship faces challenges, but how couples handle conflict can determine whether their bond grows stronger or begins to unravel. Dr. John Gottman, a renowned relationship researcher, identified four destructive communication behaviors he calls the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.” These behaviors—Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling—are powerful predictors of relationship breakdown when left unchecked. What … Read more

ADHD and Relationships: Understanding Emotional Regulation and Connection

ADHD and Relationships: Understanding Emotional Regulation and Connection

Living with ADHD as an adult brings unique challenges, but when it comes to relationships, those challenges can feel especially confusing. You might notice patterns of miscommunication, emotional outbursts, or forgetfulness that leave both partners feeling misunderstood. If you have ADHD, you might love deeply but still forget important details. If your partner has ADHD, … Read more

The Work Before the Work: Why Therapy Sometimes Starts Slowly

The Work Before the Work: Why Therapy Sometimes Starts Slowly. Therapy can feel slow at first, but that’s often where real change begins. Learn why building a foundation is key to lasting emotional healing.

I’ve been sitting with a client recently whose sessions are flying by (at least for me!). But the work? The work is going slowly. We haven’t even started on her goals yet.  Five sessions in.  Private pay sessions, at that. Gasp. Why Therapy Progress Can Feel Slow at First She’s not ready. And if I … Read more