There’s a quiet misconception floating around: That premarital counseling is only for couples who are officially engaged. You know—the ones with the ring, the date, the Pinterest board. #engagementera But here’s the truth: You don’t need to be wedding planning to benefit from premarital counseling.In fact, you don’t need to be planning a wedding at … Read more
Multicultural couples–partners from different cultural, ethnic, or religious backgrounds—are becoming increasingly common in today’s interconnected world. Multicultural relationships offer a rich tapestry of traditions, values, and perspectives. However, they can also present unique challenges, especially when it comes to navigating religious and cultural beliefs. If you’re part of a multicultural couple living in Ballwin, MO, … Read more
Parenting young children is a beautiful, rewarding journey filled with joy, discovery, and love. But it’s also one of the most challenging phases for any couple’s relationship. If you’ve found yourself thinking, “We have young kids and I’m sure a lot of this has to do with that,” you’re not alone. Many parents in Ballwin, … Read more
Loneliness is absolutely something to be concerned about right now. Both for people who are single, and also for people in relationships. One experience I’ve heard shared similarly by different people is this feeling of being surrounded by friends, family, & loved ones but still feeling isolated or alone. Specifically when there might be a … Read more
If you’ve been running your finances on your own for years, teaming up with your partner and combining finances can feel like a pretty big deal. It’s not just about the money. It’s about trust, giving up a little independence, and figuring out how to work as a team in a whole new way. This … Read more
“My partner and I have a conflict on the timeline of pregnancy.” When you and your partner face a disagreement about the timing of pregnancy—or any other major life milestone—it can feel overwhelming. These conversations often touch on deeply personal values, dreams, and fears, making them complex and emotionally charged. If you’re navigating this type … Read more
The holiday season isn’t just about decking the halls and wrapping gifts—it kicks off well before Christmas, starting with Halloween’s spooky fun and rolling into Thanksgiving’s feast. And let’s not forget, in a city like St. Louis, there are plenty of local events and traditions to consider, from Boo at the Zoo to the Polar … Read more
Infidelity can shatter the foundation of trust and intimacy in a relationship, leaving both partners grappling with a whirlwind of emotions and psychological challenges. As a St. Louis couples therapist serving the communities of West County, including Ballwin, Chesterfield, and Frontenac, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound impact infidelity can have on mental health. This betrayal … Read more
Infidelity is a profound breach of trust that can shake the very foundations of a relationship. When trust is broken, it can feel like an insurmountable task to rebuild it. However, with commitment, patience, and the right strategies, couples can work towards restoring their bond. Rebuilding trust is a journey that requires time and effort … Read more
Infidelity is a devastating breach of trust in any relationship, and dealing with it once is hard enough. But when infidelity occurs repeatedly, it can feel like an unending cycle of betrayal and pain. As a couples therapist in St. Louis, MO, I believe that understanding the cycle of repeated infidelity and finding ways to … Read more